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Dear Dr. Fournier:
Last year, both my son’s attitude and execution concerning his homework was
a disaster, and I am afraid the pattern will repeat itself this year. For the
homework to be neat and well done, I had to sit with him. If I didn’t have
the time or energy, he would rush through. Last year, his teacher didn’t
ask for his homework everyday, so my son began to gamble on not having to
turn his homework in. When he did turn in his homework, he got low grades and
I received notes on his messy papers as if it were my fault.
I do not know how to change the pattern this year. I’ve already tried
screaming and punishing and bribing. They work for a while, and then we end
up right back in the same place.
Eva D.
Fayetteville, AR
Dear Eva,
ASSESSMENT:
When parents scream, punish and/or bribe a child in order to ch... (more)
Dear Dr. Fournier:
My son completed fifth grade last year on a high note. During the year, he
struggled completing his math on time. By the end of the year his math speed
had dramatically improved. A week ago I asked him to complete a worksheet out
of one of his workbooks from last year. He struggled to complete it, and it
took him quite a while. I was shocked to see that all of his progress seemed
to have slipped away. What can we do now that the new school year is looming?
Can we get him back up to par?
Richelle W.
Fresno, CA
Dear Richelle:
When the school year ends, st... (more)
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Dear Dr. Fournier:
My child brought home an F on a test. His answers weren’t what the teacher
wanted even though they weren’t wrong. My son gave correct answers in his
own words. They were marked wrong because they weren’t the same words as in
the book. This is not the first time this has happened. Is there anything I
can do to help my child be successful in school?
Paula R.
Savannah, GA
Dear Paula:
ASSESSMENT:
Being "successful" can be an effective goal and a booby trap all in one.
When we were children, we achieved success i... (more)
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Dear Dr. Fournier:
My daughter just started the third grade. School has been very easy for her
up to now, and she has been a straight-A student with very little effort.
Although this sounds like every parent’s dream, I am concerned. On her own,
my child now expects to make all As… in other words she expects perfection.
What happens when she has to put in the effort and doesn’t make the grade?
Teresa B.
Oakland, CA
Dear Teresa:
Take heart, your fears are not atypical or unique. The major difference in
your realization is that yo... (more)
Dear Dr. Fournier:
I read your March 8th article and agree with your advice. I’m an
architect and trying to imagine how the new technology will manifest itself
in the school facilities. If classrooms become more like wi-fi media
centers (no more eggcrates) and media centers more like retail bookstore
environments, what sort of resistance do you anticipate coming from educators
and stakeholders? It seems like everyone is ready for a paradigm shift, but
not sure about acoustics or control over students. What do you think?
Dana D.
Orlando, FL
Dear Dana:
ASSESSMENT:
The ... (more)